Holy Crap! I have ADD too!
Posted by leisa on March 17, 2008
So I have two children and a husband with ADD/ADHD. I wondered sometimes just how I had hit the motherload of ADD?? I studied the various medicine, alternatives, strategies, and support stuff. I read up on how their lives would be effected. I read about the horror stories of school aged kids and what the “system” has put them through. I experienced my own children being placed at their own separate desks and not allowed to sit with the rest of the group. I am not sure, but that action by my childrens teachers seems quite discriminatory. But alas, I digress.
So back in 2005 I decided to start my own business after much discontent with a corproate career. I started life coaching and helping others find their dreams and change their lives. Then in 2007, I decided to move into another coaching field, ADD/ADHD coaching. At the time I figured that with the kids and my hubby being ADD/ADHD, it would be a natural progression and I have much experience in that universe. So I join a coach training program late in 2007 and discover that there is so much to ADD/ADHD that I never knew about. Like for instance, I HAVE ADD TOO!!!
I find it unbelievable that I have a 10 year old daughter with ADD that is almost my clone and I never even imagined that I had ADD too. This blog is about having Attention Deficit Disorder and having a family with Attention Deficit Disorder Hyperactivity. Our house is insane at times, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. I hate that they call it a deficit and a disorder. It is just our brains are different. Why does different always have to be a disorder?? Why does different have to be a deficit?? How about it being kick ass thing to be able to think differently than others?? How about it being the best thing in the universe to be able to look at things another way. How about not trying to place us in a box?
So now we continue with a different understanding and perspective….. Could be interesting. Looking forward to it!!
ADD Mama said
I really enjoyed this post. I’m still working on the positives of having ADD myself… slowly getting there.
leisa said
ADD Mama,
Thanks for your comment. There are many positives, you just have to look a little harder to see them.
I know personally that it has taken me quite a while to embrace my ADD even while it was staring me in the face. Slowly turning the traditionally negative thoughts about ADHD into positive thoughts moved me forward. I believe the future is all about the positive aspects of ADD as opposed to the negative.
Believe in yourself; you really do have all the answers inside yourself!